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the wallflower
Wallflower (wall·flow·er)
Definition
- One who does not participate in the activity at a social event because of shyness or unpopularity.
- A lady at a ball, who, either from choice, or because not asked to dance, remains a spectator.
As the term suggests, I shy away from a lot of things, parties and balls/dances being top 1 and top 2 respectively.
I'm a small girl you won't probably notice in a crowd. On top of that, I'm a natural klutz, the holder of a seemingly record-breaking list of misplaced items, an amateur anything, and an over-thinker who oftentimes lets her head rule her heart.
I'm still normal okay, don't get me wrong. haha... I'm a kid at heart who is easily pleased with simple things. One who carries a pinch of optimism, a tinkling of charm, and loads of laughs. I'm still trying to find my place in this vast expanse, but I'm having tons of fun along the way.
I'll find that light someday, I'm sure! But for now, I'll slow things down a bit and enjoy the ride.
My life's not the most spectacular thing that you'll come across, but it's worth a look :)
my a-z
A aqua
B baking, books, broadway
C Canon 50D
D dancing, David Archuleta, DLSU, doodles, DS Lite
E E71, elephants
F fencing (foil), Filipina, Freeway
G GLEEk
H HTML/CSS
I -
J June 10
K Kamiseta, Kostka QC
L Latter-day Saint (Mormon), lime green
M Malteasers
N Nancy Drew, necklaces
O OC
P pasta, piano, Psychology major
Q Quezon City
R -
S See's Rum Nougat, shrimp, singing (theatrical amateur), single, sour candies, spicy food, Stitch
T taekwondo black belt, traveling, Trumpets Playshopper, turtles
U -
V -
W Walt Disney, Warheads, Wicked (the musical), white thick-rimmed glasses
X
Y -
Z Zours
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Wednesday, August 18, 2010, 1:25 AM
ACTING is very different from REACTING. The dictionary defines acting as "false behavior; pretense", while it defines reacting as " a response to some foregoing action or stimulus".
Personally, I think that reacting has traces on genuineness in it, whereas acting may have none. When caught off guard, people's reactions give away their true emotions or thoughts; maybe even clues to some big secret they're hiding. When one acts, however, the brain takes over and there is a filtering of actions. the In simpler terms, you think when you act, but don't think when you react. This is where the slight overlap between acting and reacting comes in - a person chooses how to react to a particular situation. For example, if a happy Broadway actress is given a melancholic scene, she controls her actions and reactions based on what her character calls for in a particular scene. Ordinary people, on the other hand, merely react; oftentimes very carelessly and impulsively.
When crushes are involved, a girl should work on acting if she doesn't want to be so obvious. Instead of just reacting towards teasing and hot seat questions. "Act normally around your crush", they say, and they used the word "act" correctly since acting usually conveys an opposite reaction to one's current state. I mean, how the heck are you supposed to hide that you like someone without acting when you feel all giddy and gay inside? Act then. Act normally.
As for me, I should probably work on my acting so that my reactions won't give me away all the time. I suck at that. A lot. If I had had gotten my acting right a little earlier, my guts wouldn't be curled up in embarrassment like they are now :| Labels: oh noes, the crush files
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Jenn A.
Sunday, August 15, 2010, 10:51 PM
Some things don't need to be put into long sentences for one to understand their value.
Trust Honesty Friendship Thanks Sorry
Easily understood, and sometimes it takes just that one word alone to hit you harder than a baseball bat. No sentences, no phrases. Just words.
The thing is, not everyone knows the true value of these words, leaving others questioning their value as well. To make matters worse, they complicate things by turning simple words into one-word sentences.
Trust. Honesty. Friendship. Thanks? Sorry?
My point?
In our lives, we will always encounter people who will leave us questioning things we value - be it a hobby, a sport, a childhood dream, a friend, or plainly something (or someone) you value. All these words suddenly have punctuation marks where there clearly should be none: Trust, Honesty and Friendship given period signifying their end; Thanks and Sorry questioned for their sincerity.
None of these words should be harder to understand than supercalifragilisticexpialidocious, but a lot of times, that's how they seem - complicated. It's sad. And real. And probably give us the heaviest feelings. Ever.
So a lesson to everyone: let's NOT complicate our lives by doing things that will leave others questioning our character.
If you are trusted, keep the secret, well, secret. Honesty always has been the best policy. Not many good friends come by - don't take it for granted. Thanks - pure, unsarcastic, roll-eyes-free. If you say sorry, mean it. Labels: creative
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Jenn A.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010, 5:00 AM
Nothing creative, everything simply said. I just miss blogging. Been really caught up with all these to-dos for school, Church, and Insti. I'm working on my thesis proposal, I have 2 more tests, and a paper plus report due this week; I have 2 callings at Church (Young Women teacher for Beehive and Young Women Secretary), and I'm co-directing a play for Insti, but I'm not complaining -- well, maybe just my HECUSOC subject which is a bigger hassle than my thesis, but other than that, I'm good.
I just want to get this week over and done with. 2 days. Just 2 more days. Hang in there, Jenn! Kaya 'to!
I'll blog longer after this week of non-stop work is over. Gosh I miss blogging. Labels: the blogger returns
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Jenn A.
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Here's a list of things I want to do with my life. Hopefully, I'll be able to make most of these happen. I'll add more things as I come up with ideas.
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